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Bringing It All Together

Where do Social Activism, Entrepreneurship,
and Buddhist Practice come together?

The answer: at Manzanita VillageIf it seems strange to you that such things can coexist it may be because you hold certain limiting beliefs about what any of those three things really are. After the retreat that finished today (we are asking for it to an 'Advance' rather than a Retreat) it seems clear that to effect change in the world we must collectively move beyond divisiveness, and learn all we can from each other. What Doesn't Work - activism that holds to a singular social analysis,

  • entrepreneurship that are solely about gaining, no matter the cost to others
  • that fosters resentment, or makes others ‘wrong’
  • working from a self-centered position, rather than building strategic alliances that benefits others too
  • spiritual practice that sets up a dichotomy, that claims only your beliefs to be the correct ones

. . . all of these come from world-views and patterns of behavior we can no longer afford.

What Does Work "Unless everyone wins, no one wins!" Retreat at Manzanita Village today continually demonstrate that this unlikely combination of elements is not only possible, but that the various lessons these elements foster in each other are essential for us all to open to our full potential, individually and collectively.

Dante Alighieri as Life Coach

francesca-da-riminiRevisiting Dante’s Divine Comedy, for the first time since I was a precocious teenager with literary aspirations, I am astonished and excited by the utter genius of this work. Words escape me. There’s simply nothing quite like it in any language from any period.

And I am excited by the lessons implicit there. Lessons I wouln’t have understood on my first reading. In Dante’s first extended encounter in the Inferno he meets Francesca da Rimini – a perfect example of someone not willing to accept responsibility for her actions. “It’s not my fault.” “Love made me do it.” “What I read about Lancelot and Guinevere made me do it.”

.. an interesting idea – that other than Francesa being doomed to eternal damnation for her adultery, her actual experience of hell consists of her refusal to take responsibility for her actions or their consequences.

Is it hyperbole to suggest that being unwilling to take responsibility for the consequences of our actions is a kind of hell, endlessly self-perpetuating? Its essence is the blindness that keeps us stuck where we are. If we can’t take responsibly for the situation we’re in, we’re unlikely to take responsibility for getting out of it, or changing it.

So whenever you get into blaming, explaining, and complaining, remember Francesca da Rimini and Canto V of the Divine Comedy.

30 Pressing Questions

“Imperfection acted on beats planned perfection,”

I keep hearing this, over and over in the past year or so, in different ways, from different people. Well, how about imperfection that’s still barely out of the planning stages? It is getting done, right?

Actually some of it is already done. The imperfection in question which, if I say so myself, I am really pleased with, is the first several modules in an e-class series called THE PRESSING QUESTIONS.

You can see the first one at ChoosePersonalFreedom.com and sign up for the series there too, or if you prefer you can sign up for a trial run of the first month for just $1.

I am learning that it really is possible to maintain integrity and stay congruent with my values; to keep doing what I do, even better than before; help a lot of people; and generate revenue on-line . . amazing imperfection!

The full series of e-classes is only $247 – on special offer. That’s seven months of training. And for those who follow through and do the full class and follow through with the exercises etc. that I will be offering … well, I thank you in advance. And … you are going to learn some amazing things!

It kicks off with …

… I was speaking with a colleague the other day, Elise Turen, who was saying how some people are afraid of ‘going deep’, afraid of questioning, of daring to challenge cherished assumptions.

She laughed and said, ” . . we live there . . . ” and laughed again. “We live deep!”

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